Category Archives: Attitude

Many things have been said about attitude. Our attitude affects how we see things, deal with situations, work things out. Lots of things affect our attitude. So smile! It’ll help. :)

Don’t Expect This …

My Grandson, Tyler, posted this picture on his Facebook page, Salution Records. 

I just loved it, because it tells about what all of us go through when we are trying accomplish something.  He said, “Whether u play for 20 people or 100k people… u still doing it! Ur still putting on!! Everybody gotta start somewhere!”  Isn’t that so true?  From the view point of our home businesses, what I take from this is no matter who we are talking to, a group of 10, 50, 100 or one-on-one, do your best, do what you do, be who you are.  Be respectful and treat everybody with the same respect, dignity and personal interest.  Everybody … no matter whether they are in the audience, or on your team, up or down (family especially – but that’s another post).  Remember that everybody had to and has to start somewhere, including us, and that’s usually at the beginning – not the end.  Have reasonable expectations.  Do your homework. Count the cost.  Find your direction.  Be consistent.  Don’t give up.             mlr

My name is Martha. I love to network (even with family   ;) ).   I enjoy sharing posts that encourage us to keep trying.  It keeps it human.  That is how this article applies to my mentoring business.  Mainly I share information and ideas and educate about healthy lifestyles and products, but I also do the same about home business.  We never know when an encouraging point will help someone, or vice versa.  It’s good for making contacts too (even if it comes from family).  It helps people communicate.  When people communicate, they make referrals.   My website is  My phone number is 505-750-7847.  My email is marthapmintl@gmail.


Quit Taking It Personally

Qtip 12-10-14

I attended a class recently where one of my fellow students passed out a q-tip to each of us. She said she had learned this lesson years ago in a psychology class and it applied to what we were learning that day. Of course, a few said, “Q-tip? What’s this for?” She smiled and said, “Quit taking it personally.” I keep it in my purse.


Lesson learned.


We hear it all the time. We hear it from our mentors, our leaders, our team members. I hear it and I say it. “They’re not saying no to ‘you’, they’re just saying no to the invitation right now.” Or, “Don’t worry. Next time more people will show up. Best foot forward.” I repeat all of that positive self talk constantly. Still, once in awhile, there is a nagging doubt, a feeling that they said ‘no’ because of me – something I said or something I did.


Hence, the q-tip.


When seeds of self-doubt begin to be planted, do whatever possible to stop them from taking root. When we are working hard every day; following our schedule and routine; know our product; are presenting the product or offering an invitation to look at it – and are doing these things regularly, we will hear ‘no’. We will hear objections. Remember though, to quit taking it personally and move on. Keep going. Everyone has their own ideas and opinions about products, business models and companies. If our job is to invite someone to look at ours, and we do, and they say ‘no’, move on. Quit taking it personally. If we take it personally every time, it will be hard for us to move on and keep going. I keep the q-tip in my purse.



What is a Smile?

A smile is a window that shows your heart is at home. — Unknown

Улыбка является окно, которое показывает ваше сердце дома. – Неизвестный

What is your personal signature that makes your customers, potential customers, leaders, directors, executives — whoever you are talking to — feel special?